Get over Yourself, You are Programmed a Certain Way and You Need to Get Over Yourself

We always talk about how we have a “free will.”  Do you really have free will?  Do we really have a free will?  We have a will, but it isn’t free from influence.  From the time we are born the people around us influence our will.  Our parents are the first people to influence us.  Where we are born, who are parents are, where we live, what religions background we believe, and what kind of education we have is not in our control.  Our environment and the people around us control it.  So just get over yourself, you are more programmed that you think.

We are programmed at a very early age and we program everything through that programming.  That is why we don’t understand the nature of some people.  Especially the people who are from places completely foreign to us.  We don’t understand why they can put up with things we can’t put up with. We are programmed in American and the Western World to have a certain living standard.  People in other countries can live with much less that we are capable of living with.  We have a high standard of living in this country. 

However, there are things in our programming that really mess us up.  What if we were abused when we were growing up?  That can keep us from being the person that we are supposed to be.  Many people face serious issues from past abuse.  They are completely incapable of getting past the past.

There is hope; we can be reprogrammed.  We can change.  It’s all about what we put into our lives.  We become the five people that we are around.  That is what many of the leadership guru’s say.  Who are you around?  Who influences you?

If you want to be a go-getter, then you need to be around other people that challenge you in that area.  Find people that are doing the thing that you want to do and hang around them.  Perhaps you will have to join an organization or go after someone that is doing the thing that you want to do.  It’s not that difficult.  You will get better.

Speaking of getting better.  You can always get better.  I remember hearing the story of Derek Hough.  He is the top professional on “Dancing With the Stars.”  He has won more trophies than any other professional.  He was pared with Bindi Irwin last season.  She is the daughter of the late Crocodile Hunter, Steve Irwin.  Derek said Bindi taught him how to face adversity with joy.  No matter how good you are you can always get better because of the people you are around.  So go out and find good people and you will improve.

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