Friday, January 29, 2016

Residual Income Opportunity! How Does a Residual Income Opportunity Make You the Best You Can Be?

Whenever we start looking at a residual income opportunity like a direct marketing company the first thing we want to know is how on earth does this work?  How do we do it?  What gadget, what sales tactic, and what silver bullet can I use to build my business?  When it comes to a residual income opportunity it’s not so much how you do it, it’s how you become it?

What do I mean by that.  A residual income opportunity will make you the best that you can be.  You have to learn to be patient, sell to others, and smile when things aren’t going good.  If you are an introvert like me you have to come out of your shell enough to be able to talk to people about your opportunity or product.  I’m a bit more than an introvert.  I’m almost a hermit.  It can be very difficult for me to talk to people. 

What do you have to do to become the person that you need to become to do a network marketing or residual income opportunity?  You have to do many things to get over yourself.   Literally get over the person that your parents, peers, and teachers made you.  That’s right, they made you the person you are when you were very young.  We watched our parents and what they did.  We emulate them in many ways.  If they were the outgoing salesman type, then it will be easy for you to be a salesperson.  If not it could be more difficult for you to develop this skill.

If you, like me, lived with parents who were not the outgoing salesperson type, what can you do?  Our brains are like big computers.  They are programmed one way.  The fortunate thing is that we can change our programming.  What we put in our conscious mind will eventually get to our subconscious mind and it will change us. 

I have heard terrible stories of people raised with alcoholic parents that were very abusive changing their ways and becoming great people who made tons of money with a residual income opportunity.  Tony Robbins came from a very abusive family situation with very little money to become one of the greatest motivational speakers on the planet.  Is there any difference between you and Tony?  No, it’s just what you think.  He did things to change and so can you.

I was listening to a guru person that I know yesterday and he had some great insights.  First, stop watching the news.  We think we need to know what is going on in the world, but the news is very depressing.  I haven’t watched the news in about five years now and I think I still know what’s happening.  What I don’t know I don’t need to know.  Stop watching cop shows like CSI, Law and Order, Criminal Minds, and the plethora of cop shows that are on television today.  They will give you a slanted view of the world.  Read something before you go to bed. What you put in you mind before you go to bed will really determine your mindset the next day.  If you read something uplifting before you go to bed you will have a better mindset the next day.

When it comes to a residual income opportunity you need to become the best that you can be.  Small steps can help you change your path in life.

I want 10 people to take to a six-figure income in 2016.  If you wish to be one of them go to www.incredibletransformation.com to sign up so we can talk about it.    


Thursday, January 28, 2016

True Grit, What Does The Movie True Grit Have to Do with your Business?

Have you ever watched either one of the True Grit movies?  The first movie stared the “man’s man” John Wayne as an old gritty sheriff that went after the killer of a young girls father.  The second time was the remake staring Jeff Bridges.  Both movies were the showed what true grit means.  It means going after something and never stopping.

So what does true grit have to do with your business?  You must have it.  Determination and grit are necessary in order to develop a business.  That never quit attitude is the most important thing that you can have when you start developing your business.

Most people quit before they get to the gold.  I remember reading a book where someone stopped mining for gold.  They sold the gold mine to someone just two feet short of the mother load.  So many people just give up because it gets too tough for them. 

There are three things needed to succeed in business.  They are posture, skill, and consistency.  Posture has to do with your confidence.  Are you a confident person?  Such skills can be learned by what you put into your brain.  We are programmed  from the time we were small children.  Confidence may not be programmed into us, but we can learn it by what we watch, read, and listen to.  Stop listening to the news and stop watching all the cop shows on television.  That is a great way to start.  It’s also easy.  You just have to stop doing something.  Start filling your brain with positive things.  Listen to positive CD’s and go places that help you with your confidence.  Go to places like Toastmasters.  They will help your confidence level.

Then there’s skill.  You need to learn skill to do any kind of a job or business.  One of the reasons people will not be successful is they don’t have the skill set necessary to be successful.  That means you need to go out and find the skill necessary.  No one is going to give you the skill to do a direct marketing business.  It’s something you have to learn and it can be difficult.

The last is consistency.  This is where the true grit part comes in.  If you have a bad day and everything seems to be going wrong, do you give up or just keep going?  This it the true test.  Will you be consistent when it seems like all is lost?  If you have posture and skill it really doesn’t matter unless you can be consistent. 

Out of the three requirements that you need to be successful consistency by far is the best skill you can ever acquire.  That means you need to have true grit.

If you want to develop the skills necessary to be successful in a direct marketing or online business go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  Let’s talk about what it will take to make you successful.


Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Residual Income! What is Residual Income? Bill Gates, Richard Branson Need It, Why Don’t You?

What is residual income and why do you need it?  I am surprised that so many people don’t know what residual income really is.  When asked they can’t answer.

Residual income pays people over and over again after you work for it.  It’s the best form of income there is in this world.  People struggle with it because they don’t understand it and they don’t have the skill to obtain it.  In order to obtain a residual income you need to become the very best person you can be.  That means a lot of self-improvement is necessary.

We always think that “the rich get richer and the poor got poorer.”  We think it’s unfair.  But the reason the rich get richer is because they focus on a different way of earning money.  Bill Gates and Richard Branson were not born rich.  They just focused on a way of making money that was better the employee income.  That is the type of income most of us focus on making.

What is Residual Income?

Residual income is a direct result of our efforts.  You continue to get paid after the work is done.  It includes royalties from books, movies, songs, or real estate investments that pay you long after the work is complete.  For example, Bill Gates is still making money from Microsoft even though he doesn’t work there anymore.  A house is an asset to the people renting it because they aren’t working there all the time.  Rent is paid and the owner doesn’t have to be involved in the day-to-day activates any more.    

How to Build Residual or Passive Income

The key idea is to leverage.  You must be able to leverage other people’s time or other people’s money to create a residual income.  You need to find people that will continue to buy from you on a regular basis, long after you’ve created it.  You need to have products that are sold over and over again.  It must be something that can be duplicated.  For example, a doctor can only make so much money trading time for money, but if the doctor brings on other doctors he will start to leverage his results and build a residual income. 

Making residual income can be very difficult at first.  You have to have patience to build it.  Once you have built a residual income business it will grow faster and in spite of you.   You must always put effort into though.  There is no such thing as something you can just walk away from completely.  Residual income does give you the option of choosing your own hours and working when you want from home. 

If you would like more information about building a residual income from home the first step is for you to go to www.incredibletransformation.com.  I will get in touch with you so we can talk about how you can have the best income possible, residual income.
           

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Making Your Business Dreams Come True, What’s Most Important in Making Your Business Dreams Come True

When it comes to making your business dreams come true, what’s more important, skill or attitude?  I see so many forums and posts on social media that talk about the skill involved in making your business dreams come true.  However, I believe that it’s more about attitude than skill.  With attitude you can make anything come true.

I see more people fail from lack of attitude than I do from lack of skill.  Skill can be easily developed.  Learning how to put up a website, advertise your website, and get an email from someone is relatively easy.  However, when it comes to making your business dreams come true you need true grit or attitude.  You need to have the never quit, I will not be denied attitude. 

How do you get that attitude?  First you need a big dream.  Nothing happens in life without a dream.  If it’s big enough, it will get your through all the difficult times.  What’s your dream?  It can’t just be about making lots of money or having a great vacation home.  It needs to be about something bigger than you are.  My dream is to help other people have their dreams.  In order to have you big dream you must have the finances to fund it. 

Why not fund your dream with a residual income business?  Once you build it you can walk away from it for a while and go somewhere or do something that is a part of your dream.  Perhaps you want to take your kids on a dream vacation or become a missionary for a while.  Why not fund it with a residual income business?  It’s the perfect way to go.  You build a business, help other people build a business based on their dreams, and you get to have your dreams also. 

How do you get the proper attitude and make your business dreams come true.  There are several ways.  Number one, you need to be very aware of what you are thinking.  We can’t control our thoughts, but we can control what we put into our minds.  If we keep putting negative things into our minds our thoughts will become negative also.  There is so much negative in the world and we can absorb it very easily and become very negative.  Put positive things into your life by reading uplifting books, listening to uplifting CD’s, watching television shows that are uplifting.  We think there is not such thing, but they can be found if we look.

So making your business dreams come true can be as simple as changing what we put into our brains.  That’s right.  Have you heard the old saying “garbage in, garbage out.”  It’s so true.  So think on what is good and righteous and you will have the right attitude to make your business grow and make your business dreams come true.

Learn more about making your business dreams come true by going to www.incredibletransformation.com.  Once you have the right attitude the rest becomes easy.  

Friday, January 22, 2016

Be Innovative And Think Outside the Box, News Flash! Get Rich, be Innovative and Think Outside the Box


Are you in a rut or are you innovative and think outside the box?  So many of us think that we need to stay with the same old thing all the time.  But we are America.  We are the masters of innovation.  So why are you in a rut and not innovative and thinking outside the box. 

I believe that America has succumbed to the thought of the time that we need a job in order to make an income.  That’s very true and that used to be the case.  Jobs aren’t readily available like they used to be.  I remember when I graduated from high school in 1974 I had people coming to me asking me to work for them.  This rarely happens anymore.  Jobs have gone overseas to people with more skill and that will take less pay for the same job.

How do we get back to the innovative period that we had from about 1850 to about 1999.  It’s simple; we become innovative and start thinking outside the box.  Outside the box means we don’t think employee income all the time.  We think of other kinds of income.  We think other income streams like residual income. 

Residual income is the best kind of income there is.   It takes advantage of two things.  Number one, you aren’t trading time for money.  With employee income once you can no longer trade time for money, the money is gone.  With residual income you make it once and it comes in again and again.  It can pay your children and even your grandkids. 

Second, it leverages other people’s talents.  It’s called the compound effect.  When you work for someone they steal you talent and you make little money on it.  Many people who invent things within a company have to give the company the entire patent rights and money from the invention.  Residual income allows you to leverage your talent and other people’s talent and make money on both.  What a great way to make income. 

There is one problem with residual income; it’s the training.  You need two things to build residual income, training and attitude.  If you can acquire both of those things you can succeed in any residual income environment.  There are certain ways you can get the attitude.  You can read books, listen to CD’s on positive thinking.  But the best way is to join Toastmasters.  You gain confidence through giving speeches and being a leader.

We can also get the training we need by going to gurus of the industry to train you on how to do your business.  This can cost a lot of money.  You need someone that will train you within your network marketing company.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Thursday, January 21, 2016

A Positive Mental Attitude Affects Results, What We Do Gives Us a Positive Mental Attitude that Affects Results

When we start a home-based business, especially one that is on the internet, we need to have a positive mental attitude that will affect our results.  That’s the most important thing we can have.  But what we do is we go to all the gurus that promise us big results fast and we forget about how a positive mental attitude affects results. 

I know how you feel.  You want results in your business so much that you will do anything you can to get what you want.  I have spent over $50,000 and five years doing just that.  I went to internet guru after internet guru to find something that gave me big results.  I believe that some of these tactics and shinny objects might really have worked if I had the right mental attitude to get the results that they promised.

Nothing you try works without the right positive mental attitude that affects results.  I didn’t get that until I did some real work on myself.  I listened to CD’s, went to seminars, and even joined Toastmasters in an attempt to remake myself.  You know what, it worked! I was able to remake myself.  It’s all about programming your mind.  We are programmed from the time we are born.  It all starts with our parents.  Then it continues with our peers and our teachers.  By the time we leave home we are programmed a certain way. 

I was programmed to believe I wasn’t worth anything and I didn’t have anything to give anyone.  I came from a very abusive background.  If I can be reprogrammed you can be reprogrammed.  It all depends on what you put into your mind.  You can’t control your thoughts.  They are like a two year old running around with no discipline.  But you can control what you put into your mind.  If you want a positive mental attitude that affects results you need to watch what you put into your mind.  All the negative junk that you hear on the news, on facebook, and around the water cooler isn’t helping.  You need to read books that are positive, listen to positive CD’s, and meditate on them.

A positive attitude is the best way to affect the results you get.  We are what we think.  I reprogrammed my mind to think I was someone that had something to give the world.  Now I am seeing positive results in my business and my life.  You can have the same results in your life is you develop a positive attitude.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.


Wednesday, January 20, 2016

Old School Business Practices, Are You Firing Cannons By Using Old School Business Practices?

Are you slowing down your business by using old school business practices?  Old school business practices can really slow down your business.  What are you doing in your home-based business to slow progress?

Did you know that the military still uses three people to fire a cannon?  They have one person to load it and one person to fire it.  What is that other third person for?  We really don’t have a reason for that person anymore but the manual hasn’t changed so the military doesn’t change.  They have to stay within the regulations.

When horses were still used, they needed that extra person to drive the horse up the hill, to help place the cannon, and to hold the horse and keep it from being spooked when the cannon was fired.  How long has it been since we have used horses in the military to do anything?  It was in 1916 in Columbus, New Mexico when trucks took over the job of horses and mules.  That’s been 100 years ago.  Yet we still need that third person just to stand there and do nothing because the regulations say we must use have them.  This is a tremendous waste of manpower and taxpayer dollars.

I was in the military and I know how difficult it is for them to change anything.  The regulation books are big enough to fill libraries and they just don’t change quickly.  But how quickly do you change in your business?  It there something that you can improve on?  How much time do you waste using old school business practices?

As a businessperson, even one in business for yourself, you need to be in the 21st Century.  Do you still use practices from the 1990’s.  Things change so quickly now that it is difficult to keep up.  I was reading something the other day that was from only last year, but it doesn’t work anymore.  Things on the internet change at the speed of light, and we have to be on top of it all the time.

Go over every practice that you have in your business as see what old school business practices you can get rid of.  Are you wasting to much time in meetings, using an antiquated phone system, or still using email marketing as a way to attract customers?  Whatever it is that you are doing that is old and out dated you need to get rid of it and move into the 21st Century.  You may have to read up to keep up but it will be well worth it.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Your Head Game of Happiness, How Do You Play Your Head Game Of Happiness


What makes you happy? This is a very important question, maybe one of the most important questions you will ever ask yourself.  Many of us play a head game of happiness because we really don’t know what makes us happy.  We think we are happy but we really aren’t.

There are three head games of happiness that we play in order to avoid our own happiness.  First we spend all of our lives postponing happiness.  I used to know a lot of people in the workforce who thought they would be happy when they retire.  They would finally get to go and do the things that they want to do.  Perhaps go fishing whenever they wanted, go see their favorite place, or go see the grandkids whenever they wanted.  The thing is, if you’re not happy now, you won’t be happy later.  I have known many people that retire and then they are dead within six months.  That’s not happiness.

Second, we spend our days trying to make other people happy.  I know that feeling.  I was trapped in that for many years.  I was programmed when I was a child not to upset anyone because dad was always mad about something.  I could never make him happy but I certainly didn’t want to make him unhappy.  I tried all my life to make unhappy people happy.  It didn’t work.  I found out that the only way for me to be happy is to make myself happy.  Then I could truly make other people happy.

Third, happiness is really just an illusion so we compare our happiness to others.  This is a very dangerous trap to fall into because we start comparing ourselves with other people.  Whenever we do this we set ourselves up for failure. 

Happiness is really just a state of mind.  How do we get happy and stay happy?  We do it by living in gratitude.  We have to be grateful for who we are and where we are today.  So think about it, what do you have to be grateful for today?  So many of us in the Western World are not grateful for what we have and we are so miserable.  We have a lot more than people in many in other parts of the world.  So don’t play a head game of happiness, be grateful for what you have today and you will be happy.  Stop being ungrateful for every little thing that happens and find joy in your adversity. 

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Sunday, January 17, 2016

Be Tough On Yourself, Why do you Need to be Tough on Yourself?

We live in a world where we believe that positive reinforcement is the best way to get ourselves to lose weight, get started in our business, or have something we want.  We encourage children with trophies of participation, not trophies for winning.  As parents we aren’t allowed to punish our children but we must reinforce behavior by being positive.  How often does that work?  Sometimes you have to be tough on yourself in order to get what you want in life.

Let me ask you, do you follow the speed limit because you want to or because the cops will give you positive reinforcement if you follow the speed limit?  Or do you follow the speed limit because you are afraid of the ticket and large fine you will receive if you go over the speed limit.  Do you pay you taxes because Uncle Sam will give you a pat on the back for paying your taxes or are you afraid of the IRS?  It isn’t the positive reinforcement that makes you follow the rules; it’s the negative consequences that make you follow the rules.

That’s why so many people become successful when they become desperate.  I don’t know of one person that became a success in a home-based business by having a lot of money and doing the business.  I know plenty that were broke and thousands of dollars in credit card debt that made up their mind to make it happen.  They were not going to be denied.  They were going to make it or break it.  They made it, most made it big.   

I also know that many people will not go on a diet, lose weight, or take care of themselves until they have the heart attack or get cancer.  It’s just a fact; humans are wired not to do anything unless something goes wrong.  We tend to stay in our little rut. 

Will you be tough on yourself voluntarily?  I doubt it.  It takes some kind of crisis in order for you to get out of your comfort zone and do what it is that you know you should do.  If you want to take off some extra pounds you should do some kind of negative reinforcement in order to make it happen.  I heard the story of a person that decided that she would give to the most horrible charity that she knew if she didn’t lose 30 pounds.  Every time she took a cookie she would think about the horrible charity she would not eat the cookie.  Guess what, she lost the 30 pounds.

What will it take for you to get tough on yourself and get what you want in life?  Will it take a heart attack or some horrible disease to get you to take care of yourself?  Will it take a financial crisis for you to finally get into gear with your business?  So get tough on yourself and do what you are supposed to do.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Friday, January 15, 2016

Get over Yourself, You are Programmed a Certain Way and You Need to Get Over Yourself


We always talk about how we have a “free will.”  Do you really have free will?  Do we really have a free will?  We have a will, but it isn’t free from influence.  From the time we are born the people around us influence our will.  Our parents are the first people to influence us.  Where we are born, who are parents are, where we live, what religions background we believe, and what kind of education we have is not in our control.  Our environment and the people around us control it.  So just get over yourself, you are more programmed that you think.

We are programmed at a very early age and we program everything through that programming.  That is why we don’t understand the nature of some people.  Especially the people who are from places completely foreign to us.  We don’t understand why they can put up with things we can’t put up with. We are programmed in American and the Western World to have a certain living standard.  People in other countries can live with much less that we are capable of living with.  We have a high standard of living in this country. 

However, there are things in our programming that really mess us up.  What if we were abused when we were growing up?  That can keep us from being the person that we are supposed to be.  Many people face serious issues from past abuse.  They are completely incapable of getting past the past.

There is hope; we can be reprogrammed.  We can change.  It’s all about what we put into our lives.  We become the five people that we are around.  That is what many of the leadership guru’s say.  Who are you around?  Who influences you?

If you want to be a go-getter, then you need to be around other people that challenge you in that area.  Find people that are doing the thing that you want to do and hang around them.  Perhaps you will have to join an organization or go after someone that is doing the thing that you want to do.  It’s not that difficult.  You will get better.

Speaking of getting better.  You can always get better.  I remember hearing the story of Derek Hough.  He is the top professional on “Dancing With the Stars.”  He has won more trophies than any other professional.  He was pared with Bindi Irwin last season.  She is the daughter of the late Crocodile Hunter, Steve Irwin.  Derek said Bindi taught him how to face adversity with joy.  No matter how good you are you can always get better because of the people you are around.  So go out and find good people and you will improve.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Getting Over Phone Fear! Getting Over Phone Fear Can be a Great Weight Loss Program

Many people will not succeed in business because they have a fear of the phone.  They just won’t pick it up and call anyone.  I struggled with my fear for over three years.  I would start and then stop.  I would call someone and pray there weren’t home so I could leave a quick message and get off the phone quickly.  It took a long time but I finally got over my phone fear.

I have a coach.  We were discussing phone fear the other day and she said she would throw up every time she went to call someone on the phone.  Every time the phone rang she would throw up.  She lost a lot of weight but she finally got over her fear of being on the phone. 

Why are we so phone phobic?  I think it is the fear of rejection.  We are afraid that we are going to be rejected and yelled at so we don’t want to call on the phone.  It is an unrealistic fear.  I came from an abusive background and every time I did anything it was wrong.  I was constantly scrutinized and degraded for almost everything I did, said, or didn’t do.  It gave me a fear of talking to almost anyone.  I finally conquered my fear and this is how I did it.

First, I went on a self-improvement binge.  I read everything I could in the area of self-improvement.  I read books like “The Entrepreneur Roller Coaster.”  Others like “Start with Why.”  Books help you become successful.  

Second, I listened to CD’s from people like Darren Hardy, John Maxwell, and Jeffrey Combs.  They all helped me to get over my past and get over it.

Third, I joined Toastmasters.  That club helped me more that anything.  Not only did I join it but I immersed myself in it.  I did the speeches and got on the leadership path.  I because president of my club and quickly advanced in the communication track.  There is something magical about Toastmasters.

Fourth, I meditated on my vision.  Your creator put you on the planet for some reason.  What is it?  Find that out, meditate on it and you will get over your phone fear and become a bold leader.

All of us have fears that keep us from doing what we are supposed to do.  Don’t let your phone fear keep you from having the life you are supposed to live.   It’s your life, live it to the fullest.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.


Leadership Qualities! Their are Seven Leadership Qualities; What are They?

The late, great, Jim Rohn was one of the pioneers of self-improvement.  One of the things that he always talked about were the qualities of great leaders.  What exactly are great leadership qualities according to Mr. Rohn.

If you want to be a leader that attracts quality people to you the key is to become a leader yourself.  You have to have the leadership qualities that will attract others to you.  Leadership is learned.  You are not born with great leadership abilities.  Developing leadership qualities can also be a challenge

It is important for leaders to develop skills.  Here are seven that Mr. Rohn suggests:

1.    Learn to be strong but not impolite.  Take that extra step and learn to become a strong, powerful capable leader.  Don’t become rude stay polite.  Strong leaders can be leaders and not become arrogant.
2.    Learn to be kind but not weak.  Many times kindness is mistaken for weakness.  Kindness isn’t weak.  In fact a kind person has a certain type of strength.  Kindness means telling someone the truth.  It also takes kindness to lay it on the line.  Being kind and speaking the truth can make you the strongest person in the room
3.    Learn to be bold but not a bully.  To develop great leadership qualities you must be bold.  You have to walk in front of your group with a certain amount of influence.  You have to take the first arrow, tackle the first problem, and discover the first sign of trouble.  You must invest time if you want to reap the harvest.  Like a farmer, to develop leadership qualities you must face the weeds with boldness.  You must seize the moment.
4.    Learn to be humble but not timid.  You can’t get the life you deserve by being timid.  People sometimes mistake timidity for humility.  But humility is a virtue; timidity is a disease.  God says be humble.  It will give you an awareness of the soul.  To develop leadership qualities you must develop humility
5.    Learn to be proud but no arrogant.  It takes pride to build your ambitions.  But the key to being a good leader means being proud without being arrogant.  Arrogance comes from ignorance.  If someone is smart and arrogant we have a difficult time tolerating that.  Pride is being smart and humble.
6.    Learn to develop humor without folly.  To be a quality leader we need to learn to be witty but not silly, fun but not foolish.
7.    Learn to deal in realities.  Don’t be delusional.  To develop leadership qualities we must accept life as it is—the whole drama of life.  It’s fascinating.

Life is unique for all of us and developing leadership qualities is unique.  The skills that work well for one leader may not work for another, but the skills of developing leadership qualities is the same for just about everyone.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Thursday, January 14, 2016

Get Over Yourself, you Need to Improve Don’t You, so Get Over Yourself

How many of us refuse to just say, “get over yourself” and improve every day of your life.  So many of us get stuck in a rut and just stay there for the rest of their lives.  I have never been that way.  I love self-improvement, but improving is hard work and lots of us don’t want to do that.  We don’t improve because it is difficult.  Any time you stay in a rut it is difficult also.  Have you ever heard the saying “Do the hard things now and life becomes easy.  Do the easy things now and life becomes hard.”

That’s true isn’t it?  If you don’t pay attention to your health when you are in your youth, as you get older it will catch up to you.  You will find yourself in the hospital, with all kinds of hospital bills, and then you will not live the quality of life that you might have had as you grow older.  If you don’t save now when you get older your won’t have the money to enjoy your retirement.

People can get in a rut so easily.  I remember that I used to work in a place where they had about 25 machines that were exactly the same.  They needed one person to operate two machines.  The operators would complain all the time about having to operate these machines all night long.  It was so boring.  But if the supervisor would assign them two different machines for one shift they would really complain.  I was an engineer in that section and I often wondered what these operators wanted.  Did they want something different of did they want the same old boring thing all the time.  I don’t believe they knew either.

How do you improve?  The first thing you need to do to improve is to know where you are.  Take an inventory of your health, your finances, and your mental state.  Then figure out ways you can improve from there.  If you are overweight, you need to improve by getting to the gym and getting better eating habits.  If you need more finances you may need to supplement your income with a home-based business or another job.  If your mental state is wrong, then you need to do self-improvement books and CD’s to improve your mental state.

Go from there and continually strive to improve.  Do you know that humans are the only created beings that do not live up to their potential?  We let emotions get in the way of our success.  So get over yourself and be the best you can be by improving your health, finances, and emotions.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.