Get Over Yourself! Complacency is the Killer or Success, so Get Over Yourself!

Complacency, it seems like the whole world suffers from it in some form or another.  We are complacent about our success.  We all want to be successful but we get into a comfort zone and just become totally complacent about our lives, careers, and success.  I’m here to tell you that you need to get over yourself and become a success.  Everyone can do it; we just need to start doing it.

For many years America was the global leader in manufacturing and jobs.  We had an easy life.  I know when I got out of high school jobs were easy to find and most of them were high paying.  That is no longer the case.  Statistics are staggering.  Nearly 80% of all college graduates will move back in with their parents after they graduate because they can’t find a job that will pay the bills.  This is the sad reality of the end of the Industrial Age and American dominance.

When World War II ended we were the only industrialized nation that was not destroyed.  We had factories already built to make the instruments of war like planes and bombs.  All we had to do was retool them and we could make other products.  Countries in Europe and Japan were not so fortunate; their infrastructure was destroyed.  It had to be rebuilt from the ground up.

This took time, so Americans enjoyed unprecedented wealth for about five decades until things began to change.  The factories were rebuilt in other countries, globalization started, and the Internet became a reality.  America no longer enjoys the dominance we once had.   But that doesn’t mean we still can’t compete.  Things have changed and we need to change with them.

However, we are falling behind because we have become complacent.  Instead of changing ourselves we are complaining that our government does not provide for us.  We need to just say, “get over yourself” and seize the new opportunities that are before us.  There are many, even more than we had during the boom years after WWII, but we just prefer to stay complacent and stay in the same rut.  If you suffer from complacency you need to say get over yourself, get the training that you need to succeed, and go for it.     

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself! People Don’t Care that Much about You so Get Over Yourself!

How many times do you feel that the world is watching every one of you screw-ups and mistakes?  Because I was abused as a child I used to believe that everyone saw every one of my mistakes.  I have had to realize that I need to say to myself “get over yourself” because not everyone is watching or cares about my mistakes.

I am an avid member of Toastmasters.  I love to give speeches and be involved with the club.  Yesterday I was giving a speech and I didn’t check the PowerPoint presentation before I started my speech.  Half way through the speech the whole system started to mess up.  I had to wing it.  It’s a good thing that I had the speech memorized or I would have really messed up.  The PowerPoint finally started working like it was supposed to but I felt like I really messed up. 

Every Toastmasters Club meeting is a contest.  We have a contest for best speaker.  I won the contest.  Even though I felt like I really screwed it up, but I guess my fellow club members didn’t feel the same way about my speech.  I just needed to say “get over yourself.”  People don’t see things the way you do.  They really don’t see all of your screw-ups.  No one is perfect so get over yourself.

Do you every feel like that?  Do you feel like you live in a fishbowl with everyone watching for every mistake that you make.  That is probably caused because you were abused as a child.  My dad used to watch my every move when I was around him.  Every time I did something that he didn’t like he was on my case about it.  It could be the smallest thing or nothing at all.  Perhaps he was just in a bad mood that day and he wanted to take it out on me.  I grew up thinking that everyone was watching my every move and they saw every mistake I made.  I spent years trying to get over myself.  I did well for myself, but I was never the person the God wanted me to be.

If you were abused like I was and you feel the same way, then get over yourself because people aren’t watching your every move or caring much about the mistake you make unless it’s a big one that really hurts someone.  Those small little things that you think you screw up no one cares about.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself! You are Enough so Get Over Yourself?

I was lying in bed last night.  When I am in bed in the middle of the night and I wake up I either have my greatest moments of inspiration or my greatest moments of self-doubt.  Last night I had one of my greatest moments of self-doubt.  I think that I’m not good enough.  Then my thoughts came to me that said “Get over yourself, you are good enough.”  I’m enough. I’m enough, I kept repeating over and over in my head.  I should think I am more than enough because I have to Lord on my side also.

I believe this is the main reason that most people don’t have success in business and in their lives.  They believe that they aren’t enough. They have limiting thoughts and beliefs floating around that stay with them throughout their whole lives.  They make it through life but not well.  They settle for less than their best because of some childhood trauma, someone telling them they aren’t good enough over and over again, or some disappointment that keeps them from doing the one thing that they were put on this earth to do.

I believe that not many people ever accomplish what they were put one Earth to do.  That’s because they refuse to just say “get over yourself” and do it.  The only thing stopping them is what is in their head.  Is that your problem?  I know it was mine.  I just refused to get over myself long enough to do what God wants me to do.  I get inside my head and refuse to see outside myself.  I think that I am not confident.  Most people see me as confident and powerful.  I hear that from people all the time but I refuse to believe it. 

Why I can’t believe that I am nothing more that an abused little girl that was raised as an only child in the middle of nowhere, I don’t know.  I am not a little girl anymore and I don’t live in the middle of nowhere anymore.  The one who told me I was nothing, my dad, has been dead for over 10 years now.  I need to keep saying to myself, “get over yourself, I’m enough, I’m enough, I’m enough.” 

Is that what you deal with?  Do you deal with limiting beliefs that keep you from doing the thing that you know you were put on the planet to do?  If so you need to change your thinking.  You need to think outside yourself and get over yourself.  You are enough and you can do it.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go  HERE sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.