Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Get Over Yourself! People Don’t Care that Much about You so Get Over Yourself!


How many times do you feel that the world is watching every one of you screw-ups and mistakes?  Because I was abused as a child I used to believe that everyone saw every one of my mistakes.  I have had to realize that I need to say to myself “get over yourself” because not everyone is watching or cares about my mistakes.

I am an avid member of Toastmasters.  I love to give speeches and be involved with the club.  Yesterday I was giving a speech and I didn’t check the PowerPoint presentation before I started my speech.  Half way through the speech the whole system started to mess up.  I had to wing it.  It’s a good thing that I had the speech memorized or I would have really messed up.  The PowerPoint finally started working like it was supposed to but I felt like I really messed up. 

Every Toastmasters Club meeting is a contest.  We have a contest for best speaker.  I won the contest.  Even though I felt like I really screwed it up, but I guess my fellow club members didn’t feel the same way about my speech.  I just needed to say “get over yourself.”  People don’t see things the way you do.  They really don’t see all of your screw-ups.  No one is perfect so get over yourself.

Do you every feel like that?  Do you feel like you live in a fishbowl with everyone watching for every mistake that you make.  That is probably caused because you were abused as a child.  My dad used to watch my every move when I was around him.  Every time I did something that he didn’t like he was on my case about it.  It could be the smallest thing or nothing at all.  Perhaps he was just in a bad mood that day and he wanted to take it out on me.  I grew up thinking that everyone was watching my every move and they saw every mistake I made.  I spent years trying to get over myself.  I did well for myself, but I was never the person the God wanted me to be.

If you were abused like I was and you feel the same way, then get over yourself because people aren’t watching your every move or caring much about the mistake you make unless it’s a big one that really hurts someone.  Those small little things that you think you screw up no one cares about.

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