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Thursday, January 14, 2016

Get Over Yourself, Think Like and Ant and Get Over Yourself

We live in the desert Southwest of New Mexico. One thing that we do not lack in this desert is ants. We have so many of them in the summer time we have to spray to keep them away from the house so our grass will grow. If you think you have hard times you need to get over yourself and start to think like an ant. When was the last time you saw ant reach an obstacle and give up with their head down and head back to the ant hole to relax? Never.

Ants never quit. I remember putting the branch of a very invasive weed next to an ant pile one time. The ants came out immediately and stripped it down. They didn’t want that weed even close to their environment. Imagine what you could accomplish if you would just say “get over yourself” and have a never quit philosophy like an ant.

Number one, ants never quit. That’s a good philosophy. If ants are headed somewhere you can’t stop them. They will climb over, they’ll climb under, and they’ll climb around. They keep looking for another way until they find it.

Number two, ants thing winter all summer. That’s and important perspective. You can’t believe that summer will last forever. You need to do like the ant and gather food in the summer for winter.

Number three, ants think summer all winter. During the winter the ants know that they will be out of their hole soon. The first warm day, the ants are out. Then if it turns cold again they go back into their hole. You will have those days of winter but don’t stay there. Come out when the summer hits.

Number four; ants think, “all-you-possibly-can.” How much will an ant gather in the summer to prepare for winter; all they possibly can. Ants don’t have quotas or “good enough” philosophies. They don’t gather a certain amount and then head back to the hole to hang out. If an ant can do more imaging what you could do if you just said, “get over yourself” and be all you can be.

Think like and ant, get over yourself, stay positive, and do all you can.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you. I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016. You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up. I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself, You’re a Liar, You Need to Get Over Yourself

Do you think of yourself as a person of integrity? I’ll bet you do? Do you lie? I’ll bet you do. You may think that you never lie but there is one person that you lie to every day. It’s not your kids or your spouse, it’s not even your pastor or your boss; it’s you!! How many times have you told yourself you’re going to change something only to lie to yourself and never change anything?

You tell yourself so many times that you are going to lose weight, stop eating sweets, stop watching so much TV, or get to the gym. You don’t change these things and you have done it so many times that you don’t even believe yourself anymore. How terrible is that! You don’t believe yourself. You know you’re a liar, a cheat, and not to be trusted. Your accountability to yourself sucks. You are probably the kind of person that keeps your word with others, but you lie to yourself all the time. This is why you need others to hold you accountable.

How do you leverage your integrity with others to keep yourself accountable? Psychologists say we are the happiest when we can see the progress that we are making. We love to feel accomplished. So one thing that you can do is make a to do list. Every time you mark something off the list you will feel more accomplished. It is an awesome feeling, checking things off the list. We love to see the evidence of progress.

You need to set up visual evidence of your progress. Make your big three goals that will make this year the best year of your life. Then break them down into small steps that can be accomplished every single day. Make sure you have a place where you can see your daily progress and mark it off the list every single day. That will help make you feel like you are accomplishing something every day.

For example, perhaps your goal is to lose 50 pounds, get to the gym every day, and do some core exercises. Get a big calendar and put it up in your office so that you have to stare at it every single day. When you actually get to the gym and do those core exercises, mark it off on the calendar. You have to stare at it all the time and when you don’t achieve it you won’t feel good about yourself. When you do you will feel great. Therefore, helping you to achieve your goals. Keep doing this exercise until you establish a habit that you don’t want to break.

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Get Over Yourself, Use your Talents and Get Over Yourself

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to be natural at something and others struggle? We all have talents. Some of us are talented musicians and others are talented engineers. An engineer would feel very uncomfortable being a musician of an entertainer. An entertainer would not be a very good engineer because they usually don’t have the focus to do what an engineer does.

I think that we are all should say “get over yourself” and use the talent that you were given to make the money that you need to survive. We have the idea that we all need a job, it takes a job. We have been taught that the only way to get by is to be and employee and work for someone else. That has worked in the past when the jobs were readily available but it isn’t working as well today.

Most of the high paying industrial jobs have gone overseas because they can hire people much more cheaply and they are also trained for the skills that employers need. I can remember when trade school was a very viable alternative for high school graduates, but these days very few Americans are trained in the trades. Everyone wants to go to college and get a degree. Most college graduates never use the degree that they have for anything. They are strapped with large student loan debt and they start life with a debt that they will take a lifetime to pay off.

Why is it that we don’t use the talents that God gave us to have a business to pay the bills? The saddest thing I see is people who go to work for someone, have a job they hate, and then they take the talent that God gave them and make it a hobby. God gave you that talent use to bring joy to other peoples lives, your life, and make a good living at it.

It is so unfortunate that so many people have been brainwashed to believe that they must be stuck in a dead end job for the rest of their lives that they don’t like just to pay the bills. Even these jobs are getting harder and harder to come by. Someday you may be forced to get over yourself, develop your talents, and live a great life using these talents to provide for your family. And why not? It is your God given ability. Use it for good, not as a hobby.

Get Over Yourself, Resist the Temptation, and Get Over Yourself

Temptation is one of the worst things that humans have to keep them from getting the thing that we are destined to do. We need to just say “get over yourself” and stop being tempted by everything that tempts us. That isn’t easy for us because we are constantly being tempted by the world. There are so many things that tempt us and we are too weak to resist all the temptations.

I know that one of the big temptations of this world is distraction. Whenever you want to start a home based business everything will tempt us. The TV, the internet, facebook, youtube, the door bell, the phone, everything. Even the family that loves us and wishes us to do this business will temp us. How easily will we be distracted and lose our focus.

I know that I love to work at home, but I have to remember that it’s work, not play. I tend want to do other things like clean the house, walk the dogs, talk to my husband, and play on facebook. One of my favorite things is to scroll facebook posts. I can look at cute dog posts, baby posts, and the posts of friends and family all day. I also have a person on youtube that I follow. He is in Africa. It is interesting to see the way they live and the horrible conditions that they face.

This all distracts me from the task at hand and that is getting my business built. But is it so much easier to just give up on the hard stuff and go to the easy stuff like looking at facebook posts all day long. I have to really watch what I’m doing and not go there at all.

What is it that tempts you today? What do you need to do to get over yourself and do the thing that will give you the life you were destined to live? Is there some temptation that gets in your way? I’ll bet that you could stop if you were to get desperate enough. What would it take for you to resist temptation and get to living the life you were born to have? Only you can answer that question, but it would probably take something to make you desperate enough to stop what you are doing and get a new life. For many of us it’s some kind of trouble that we have to get out of like financial trouble or some similar thing. We are human and that is just the way it works, desperation is a big motivator to get over yourself and get moving.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you. I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016. You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.imcredibletransformation.com and sign up. I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself, Do The Thing That You Need To Do By Doing Small Things by Getting Over Yourself

Do you have a big hairy audacious goal? I mean one that is so big that you don’t know how to get there? Well, you do it one step at a time. That is how you do it. Get over yourself and just start toward your big hairy audacious goal.

First, you need to set that goal. Make sure it’s a big one and make sure it’s something that you really want to have. You can’t have a six-figure income without a six-figure dream. That’s all there is to it. Many people say they want to change their lives and have the things that they want, but they are unable and unwilling to change. They are overwhelmed with the world, their lives, and the things that get in the way of having what they are destined to have.

Here is one reason they refuse to say “get over yourself” and get the thing that I was put on the planet to have. They make their big hairy audacious goal and then it completely overwhelms them. What I mean is that they start looking at the goal and it’s too big. It’s like the deer in the headlights, they stare at it and they don’t know where to go.

That is because they are taught the wrong way to look at their goals and dreams. They are told to look at their goals every day. That just overwhelms them even more.

Perhaps what we need to do is not look at our goals but make a plan to get to our goals and then take it one step at a time. If we want your big hairy audacious goal to come into reality, make it and then forget about it. Don’t think about what it will take to get to the goal, think about making the next call or writing the next article.

If you are climbing a staircase of 1000 steps would you look at the top of the staircase and then start your climb. NO!! You would look at the step that is right in front of you. If you want to make it to the top it would completely overwhelm you and you would quit because halfway though you would not see any progress. So get over yourself, take one step at a time and you will get there. Little by little that big hairy audacious goal will come true.

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Get Over Yourself, it’s all About Attitude so Get Over Yourself!

Have you ever wondered why some people are extremely successful in their network marketing company and some people aren’t. I believe there are two types of people that are successful in the business. First, they people that already have a large network of people before they start in their company. If you already have people that trust you and will listen to you, then you will get them involved and they will grow quickly.

Sometimes, however, they run out of people to talk to and then they stall. They may have great businesses and make a good living but they never achieve that level of being mega-successful.

What do the mega-successful people do? How do they become such a success? They have an attitude. They have the attitude that they will not be denied. They are going to have success no matter what. Whatever it takes they are going to do it. They see the opportunity before them and they will take advantage of it no matter what.

Before they are successful in their network marketing company, however, they have to develop a certain attitude. It is an attitude of confidence that goes beyond what other people have. It’s difficult to explain. But they almost have an air of arrogance about them. It isn’t the kind of arrogance that they believe they are above everyone else but it’s a super confidence that they just know they can lead others and help make others better people.

How do you get that confidence? Some people are born with it. Maybe they aren’t born with it but their parents install it in them from the time they are born. Others have to get it from somewhere. Some of the most successful people were people who were horribly abused growing up. I think they just know that they have it in them to become great but they need to change. These people will go that extra mile to get that confidence. They read, listen to positive thinking CD’s, and change their brain so they have the confidence necessary to really make it.

Let’s face it, some of the most successful people are in network marketing. It’s a business where you can work really hard and become a millionaire in three to five years. So many people do not achieve this kind of success because they want to hold on to all their baggage. What is more important, your baggage or your success?

Get Over Yourself, If you want to Have Success, Have Grit, Not Intelligence, So Get Over Yourself

Do you ever watch “The Big Bang Theory?” It’s about four very intelligent people who are researchers for a university. They are very intelligent but they lack people skills and the skills necessary to survive in the business world.

Then there is the pretty but not so smart next-door neighbor that survives the world because of her pure grit and determination. Which is better, intelligence or grit? There are many intelligent people that are completely broke. I have been one of them. I possess three degrees and a certificate, yet I was unable to make it in the business world.

You see all those degrees didn’t prepare me for life as a businessperson. In fact they didn’t prepare me for life at all. It wasn’t until I got grit that I was able to start making it is business. How do you get grit? You get it from the school of hard knocks and the University of Adversity, not from any university that I know of. Sure you work hard to achieve a degree, but you never get the grit that you need for the world of entrepreneurship.

Grit is firmness of character, determination, and steadfastness. How do you get that? If you want something bad enough you will do what it takes. Some of the great athletes like Michael Jordan, Larry Bird, and Payton Manning have displayed grit on the field or the court. Steve Jobs and Bill Gates have shown great grit in the business world. They both changed the world, as we know it by making a computer that would sit on a desk. Who could get by now without a smart phone? Not many of us. We love them. Without Steve Jobs determination we would not have one.

In fact, Apple is the biggest company in the world right now. And Mr. Job’s was adopted and even his adoptive parents didn’t want him. He left home and became a hippie before he ventured into the world of business. If anyone would fail, you would think it would be him. But it’s all about the grit and determination that a person has to succeed. You can have that or get it. It’s really up to you.

So where do you stand? Do you want to do what you were designed to do? Change the world in some way maybe or do you want to stay in the same place complaining about everything in the world. If you want to change things, get over yourself and get some grit.