Friday, January 15, 2016

Getting Over Phone Fear! Getting Over Phone Fear Can be a Great Weight Loss Program

Many people will not succeed in business because they have a fear of the phone.  They just won’t pick it up and call anyone.  I struggled with my fear for over three years.  I would start and then stop.  I would call someone and pray there weren’t home so I could leave a quick message and get off the phone quickly.  It took a long time but I finally got over my phone fear.

I have a coach.  We were discussing phone fear the other day and she said she would throw up every time she went to call someone on the phone.  Every time the phone rang she would throw up.  She lost a lot of weight but she finally got over her fear of being on the phone. 

Why are we so phone phobic?  I think it is the fear of rejection.  We are afraid that we are going to be rejected and yelled at so we don’t want to call on the phone.  It is an unrealistic fear.  I came from an abusive background and every time I did anything it was wrong.  I was constantly scrutinized and degraded for almost everything I did, said, or didn’t do.  It gave me a fear of talking to almost anyone.  I finally conquered my fear and this is how I did it.

First, I went on a self-improvement binge.  I read everything I could in the area of self-improvement.  I read books like “The Entrepreneur Roller Coaster.”  Others like “Start with Why.”  Books help you become successful.  

Second, I listened to CD’s from people like Darren Hardy, John Maxwell, and Jeffrey Combs.  They all helped me to get over my past and get over it.

Third, I joined Toastmasters.  That club helped me more that anything.  Not only did I join it but I immersed myself in it.  I did the speeches and got on the leadership path.  I because president of my club and quickly advanced in the communication track.  There is something magical about Toastmasters.

Fourth, I meditated on my vision.  Your creator put you on the planet for some reason.  What is it?  Find that out, meditate on it and you will get over your phone fear and become a bold leader.

All of us have fears that keep us from doing what we are supposed to do.  Don’t let your phone fear keep you from having the life you are supposed to live.   It’s your life, live it to the fullest.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.


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