Many people will not succeed in business because they have a
fear of the phone. They just won’t pick
it up and call anyone. I struggled with
my fear for over three years. I would
start and then stop. I would call
someone and pray there weren’t home so I could leave a quick message and get
off the phone quickly. It took a long
time but I finally got over my phone fear.
I have a coach. We
were discussing phone fear the other day and she said she would throw up every
time she went to call someone on the phone.
Every time the phone rang she would throw up. She lost a lot of weight but she finally got
over her fear of being on the phone.
Why are we so phone phobic?
I think it is the fear of rejection.
We are afraid that we are going to be rejected and yelled at so we don’t
want to call on the phone. It is an
unrealistic fear. I came from an abusive
background and every time I did anything it was wrong. I was constantly scrutinized and degraded for
almost everything I did, said, or didn’t do.
It gave me a fear of talking to almost anyone. I finally conquered my fear and this is how I
did it.
First, I went on a self-improvement binge. I read everything I could in the area of
self-improvement. I read books like “The
Entrepreneur Roller Coaster.” Others
like “Start with Why.” Books help you
become successful.
Second, I listened to CD’s from people like Darren Hardy,
John Maxwell, and Jeffrey Combs. They
all helped me to get over my past and get over it.
Third, I joined Toastmasters. That club helped me more that anything. Not only did I join it but I immersed myself
in it. I did the speeches and got on the
leadership path. I because president of
my club and quickly advanced in the communication track. There is something magical about
Toastmasters.
Fourth, I meditated on my vision. Your creator put you on the planet for some
reason. What is it? Find that out, meditate on it and you will
get over your phone fear and become a bold leader.
All of us have fears that keep us from doing what we are
supposed to do. Don’t let your phone
fear keep you from having the life you are supposed to live. It’s your life, live it to the fullest.
Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you
are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with
you. I want to help 10 people fulfill
their purpose in 2016. You must go
through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com
and sign up. I want to connect with you
about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take
your life to its purpose.
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