Get Over Yourself, You’re Gong To Have to Prospect, So Get Over Yourself!

One of my favorite movies is “A League of Their Own” staring Tom Hanks and Geena Davis.  If you don’t know the movie it is about the women’s baseball league that was started in the 1940’s to replace the men’s league because the men were all off fighting a war.  Geena plays the star player on the team and Tom is the coach.  Geena quits the team because her husband comes home from the war wounded.  When Tom asks her why she quits she says, “It just go too hard.”  Tom reply’s, “Hard, it’s supposed to be hard.  If it were easy everyone would be doing it.”

Most of us think that getting on the phone and prospecting is scary and difficult.  It’s hard and because of that few will even attempt to do it.  Some of us are naturals at it, but most of us have to learn it.  It’s an art.  It can be learned.

There are three types of prospectors.  The first are the naturals.  They love to prospect.  It is effortless to them.  They know how to work the numbers and they are good listeners.  They know how to listen for cues from what people say.  They know what people are really saying because they know how to listen.  They are the skilled pros.  Some of the people in this category are naturals and others have learned it the hard way.

The second are the uncomfortable and struggling prospectors.  This is where most people start.  They are not the natural born prospectors.  They are just learning the craft.  They are trying to figure it out.  This is where the most important lessons are learned.  They find a point of no return.  They know their vision and won’t be denied.  They will graduate into group number one when they practice become skilled pros.

The last group is the ones that are afraid to prospect.  They are locked in fear and take no’s personally.   They are getting ready to get ready.  They are good people with unresolved issues from their past.  The have a poverty consciousness, don’t know how to lead, fear the phone, have no goals, lack vision, have low self-esteem, no confidence, and self-sabotage.  People in this category will likely be stuck there unless they can get a clear goal and a big vision.  They must have this vision in order to overcome their emotions and past.

Prospecting is hard for many people.  That’s why few do it.  It doesn’t matter which category you are in you can become a master prospector if you learn to develop your craft.  Where are you in this process?

Let me be your coach.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.  

Get Over Yourself! You Must Have Vision to be a Leader so Get Over Yourself and Lead!

Do you have visions of being a great leader?  Or perhaps you want to change the world in some way. Everyone has something inside of them, something that says they can do better, be better or have more.  If you feel that way why don’t you get over yourself and achieve the very thing that you were put on the planet to do?

I believe that life squashes dreams and visions.  When we start out in life as young children we are great dreamers.  Our parents, our teachers, and our peers tell us that we need to face reality.  They tell us dreams we have can’t come true or that we are not good enough to fulfill the dreams and visions we have.  Most of the time it’s because they are inadequate and have never done anything to fulfill the dreams that they had when they were small.  We really need to understand what we are doing to our children when we put them down, abuse them, and tell them they can’t accomplish the thing that God put them on the planet to accomplish.

Anyone that is a leader has vision.  It is just and innate part of them.  They have a vision, they have a place that they want to go.  If you are looking for people that are leaders to join with you, look for vision.  Many of these leaders, however, have not achieved what they were meant to achieve because they don’t know how to get their vision from me to we.  They have no system for doing so. 

How do you get your vision from me to we?  You have to have a system to do so.  You have a get over yourself and have the confidence to get it out.  I had confidence issues for many years.  I always felt like I wasn’t good enough.  Everyone else was always better than I was.  My vision has always been to help others with their vision.  How could I do that if I wasn’t confident enough to accomplish my own vision?

You get confidence by getting over yourself enough to understand that you need help.  You need a coach and you need constant positive input into your life.  If you aren’t willing to allow others to speak into your life, you will not accomplish anything.  People need other people.  Even the greats like Tony Robbins have coaches.  He spends ten million a year on coaching. 

Let me be your coach.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.  

Get Over Yourself! Get Emotional and Get Over Yourself!

Do you have trouble connecting?  Perhaps it’s because you fail to connect with people on an emotional level.  Great leaders of any age have connected to the hearts and minds of people. They didn’t connect with the mind, or with the mind first, they connected with the heart first.  The art of connection and persuasion has to do with connecting emotionally with others.  If you have an issue with connecting with people, perhaps you need to just get over yourself and learn to connect on an emotional level. 

How do you connect with people emotionally?  Many of us think that people are just born with an automatic charisma and ability to connect.  Actually charisma isn’t a function of personality it’s a function of attitude. People with charisma posses an outward focus instead of an inward one.  They pay attention to other people and they desire to value them and give them value. 

Whatever is inside you whether it is positive or negative will eventually come out when you are communicating with others.  Even if you are trying to act positive, the negative will come across and it will impact the way others react to you.  People may hear your words but they will feel your attitude.  This will either cause them to connect with you and win them over or it will alienate them and cause you to lose them.  Attitude always overpowers words when you are speaking to others.  According to Jules Rose, “The exact words that you use are far less important than the energy, intensity, and conviction with which you use them.”

So many people have such a negative attitude in today’s world.  It comes across in their words and actions.  In order to have a positive attitude and have charisma you have to get over yourself.  The best way to get over yourself is to have confidence.  When you have confidence you can invest in others and be a giving person.  The way to get that confidence if you don’t have it is to invest in personal development.  Read books, study and meditate.  You also need to practice.  If you don’t have confidence in you speaking ability, join Toastmasters.  It is the best place to practice your speaking.  If you need help in other areas get books that relate to that area and read them.  Become an avid reader.  Improve yourself and get over yourself.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Home Base Business - A Case Study in Home Based Business

Here is a case study of a home based business I have helped. It is written with the permission of my client and he has agreed to verify this account to anyone who inquires.


It started with connecting with a gentleman who had a desire since childhood. We went through the qualifying process of answering questions about how strong he felt about seeing his dream come true and did he value his dream enough to have put aside any funding. After listening to his idea of bringing a professional show to the residents of adult retirement communities we researched if it was already being done.


Discovering that a lot of talent already provided activity directors with a variety of shows for their residents we decided to contact several in his immediate area and asked a few questions about the quality of the performances. The overwhelming response was an eye opener and gave my client exactly what he needed to separate himself from the competition… professionalism. It just so happened it was his passion.


Next I started to draw upon my client’s past work experience because, in most cases, I have discovered that people work in the arena of their passion. They give to others in desperation to keep their own passionate flame burning. In this case he work in broadcasting as an announcer and DJ for over 35 years. He knew what songs were most famous, how to arrange those song, and had stories to introduce them. He then started to create a one hour show.


One of the most important aspects that inspired me to help him was his commitment to his dream. Through the years he had kept developing his performing talent as a singer and guitarist. He had practiced on a regular basis and performed publicly throughout his career. He had valued his passion so much that he did whatever it took to see that dream come true. That meant learning new strategies, investing in self-improvement and overcoming certain fears that might otherwise hold him back. From the start he finished every assignment and attended every teleconference we scheduled. The process wasn’t always smooth but there was always progress. Failures turned into learning experiences and struggles became focal points to overcome.


The crowning action that made it all possible was immediately starting a home based business that allowed him to acquire the money and time freedom to accomplish his passion. Nothing happens without the finances to make it happen.

I can help you just as I have helped this client. Visit www.incredibletransformation.com and complete the contact form. Your information is kept with strict privacy and confidence. Let’s begin the journey of seeing your passion fulfilled. Visit my website today.

Home Based Business - Strategy and Structure of a Home Based Business

Many people have a deep seated passion that they have wanted all of their lives to accomplish. There is a need that either no one is fulfilling or very few recognize. You have the experience and knowledge to meet that need but lack the funding necessary. So the flame is suppressed and you take a traditional path of security working for others. You give your talent and commit-ment daily then watch the years turn into decades without fulfilling what you know you should have been doing. I write from experience and know without a doubt you identify.


Over the years the flame dwindles to an amber that refuses to be extinguished and hope keeps it alive. Then out of desperation that your life may end without your passion ever being realized you start fanning that faint flicker. The same question you asked so many years ago still haunts your dream… How do I get the money necessary to see my dream come true?


Working at a job gives you security of a consistent income but it is limiting. The best strategy with limitless potential is having a home based business. Your monetary reward is directly re-lated to the amount of energy, time, and talent you put into the business. There are a variety of opportunities available that have a compensation plan specifically designed to help those who invest themselves into promoting their products or services. So it is attainable and possible.


The structure of a home based business is mapped out with these corporations and those who have existed for over a decade have a proven track record of success. That translates into less time for you to create a solid company and more time toward prospecting, contacting, and clos-ing potential clients. The residual income from these structures then allows you to have the fi-nances and time freedom to accomplish your passion.


There is nothing in this world that compares to the satisfaction of seeing your passion… your calling… your purpose fulfilled on your terms. The strategies and structure I have discovered af-ter years of trial and error as well as ten of thousands of dollars invested can benefit you. I make this collective knowledge base available to those who have a clear understanding of their pur-pose, for those who have a powerful drive for massive action, and those who value their dream enough to have set aside a small amount to see it started.

Visit my website and complete the contact form so we can connect. The site is www.incredibletransformation.com and the infor-mation you provide is kept confidential. Let’s get started with a great strategy and strong struc-ture for a home based business today.

Get over Yourself! If you Want to Be Successful You Have to do it Yourself, so Get Over Yourself!

We have a sickness in this world.  I know it is in the world today but I’m not sure that it hasn’t been in the world for many years.  We want to be successful but we want someone else to do it for us.  This never happens.  You need to say “get over yourself” and go out and get your own success.

Maybe you think it is too much responsibility for you to be totally responsible for your own success.  It is but it is a great blessing to be responsible for your own destiny and success.  Jim Rohn gave four reasons why we should be in control of our own destinies.

1.     You get to chart your own destiny.  Different people have different dreams.  Perhaps your dream is to start a brick and mortar business or do something online.  It is strictly up to you what you decide to do.

2.     You reap what you sow.  Sleep in or get up early and go to work.  It’s all up to you.  But remember you reap what you sow.

3.     No one else can stop you from achieving your dream.  There will always be obstacles in your path.  There will be people who don’t like what you are doing and they will try to stop you.  That’s Ok.  Shake them off and move on.  Chart your own course.

4.     You experience the joy of self-determination.  There is no great pride than setting your mind to something and accomplishing it.  Those who live with a victim mentality never get to experience the joy of accomplishment because they are always waiting for someone to come to their rescue.  If you take responsibility you get to live the joy of seeing a job well done.

So get over yourself and plan your own future.  Whatever you decided it is up to you.  Where do you want to be in the next ten years or the next twenty years?  It is your decision and that is very exciting.  Once again, get over yourself and decide what you want to do with your life.  Jim Rohn said, “It is not what happens that determines the major part of your future.  What happens, happens to us all.  It is what you do about what happens that counts.”

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Home Based Business - The Recipe for a good Home Based Business

What are the ingredients that go into a successful home based business? The answer varies according to the culture you want to create. Just like there are a variety of flavors, textures, and tastes in the culinary world there are a variety of environments surrounding the business from home.


One of the ingredients is self motivation. A self-starter is the most important attitude to have because it enables you to get results. Being able to initiate an idea or project to planning its progress and completion is an attribute required of everyone involved. Very closely associated with self-motivation is taking responsibility. Ownership of completing a task goes a long way toward team leadership as well as being a team player. There is a lot said about accountability and how it has a huge impact on success. Ownership of a project by ever person involved is just as powerful.


Another essential ingredient is connecting with people. In marketing a product or service people are more readily persuaded if they feel a connection. An excellent example of this concept is the 1984 launch of Apple’s Macintosh computer ad during Super Bowl XVIII. The commercial aired only once nationally but connected with so many people globally that sales reach unexpected heights. The connection Apple made was on a very personal level that IBM refused to acknowledge. Connecting with potential customers and with team players smoothly blends the other ingredients together.


Then there is the spices such as character and personality. A home based business in its very nature is an individual endeavor. It may be something that is duplicated but should always be seasoned with creativity. Taking what works for others who are entrepreneurs and incorporating, adjusting, and tweaking those ideas or techniques into your style is adding the spice that makes having a home based business so satisfying.


In my years of helping others achieve the results they desire in business or their personal life I have proven that having an outside person who will take an objective approach is priceless. That is why I created the website www.incredibletransformation.com for those who have a strong passion or calling or purpose and see it come into being. Visit my website and complete the contact information form and let’s put together a recipe for a successful home based business.

Home Based Business - 3 Challenges for Home Based Business

For those of us who have grown accustom to a home based business challenges are common. The rewards of working in an environment we create is worth it all. On the other hand, for someone who is just starting out or curious there are some important issues to overcome.


One of the biggest and most frequent challenge is distractions. No matter how much you try to isolate your work area and concentrate… home life happens. It just does. The phone rings unexpectedly, the dogs start barking, there’s a knock on the door, and the list can go on. How a person deals with these interruptions and gets back to the task at hand determines the outcome of the day. Setting up a system with a significant other to deal with them is helpful. If that is not possible then learning to keep your business as a priority will help you get back to it quickly.


Another difficulty for people who have a home based business is discipline. This was true of me when I first started. There were no more managers (or assistant managers) hovering over me to get things done. No more schedules or deadlines to meet… I was free to work when I felt like it because I was my own boss. When the funds soon ran out and credit card debt started to climb out of control I realized the importance of discipline. It was when I took responsibility and control of my time management that I started to see excellent results. Looking back at my employment experiences I’m more hard on myself than any supervisor and I feel more empowered now.


The third problem necessary to master is being disconnected. When a person works as an employee it is easy to disconnect. Punching the time card or timing out, the commute home, and changing out work clothes all help us separate emotionally and psychologically from a job. Having a home based business and taking it home is obvious. Learning how to disconnect your business concerns from you home or family concerns is important for both you and them. This is one of the best reasons to have a work area separate from other home areas. The simple act of getting up from the desk and walking away can help keep business in the frame of business and redirect your mind and heart toward family.


There is so much more involved in having a successful home business from lead generation to self improvement to keeping up with the rapidly changing industry. I have been on the journey for many years and created a website… www.incredibletransformation.com to connect with others who have a deep passion and want to see their purpose in life fulfilled. Visit my website now and complete the contact information form so you can put me on your team to success.

Get Over Yourself, Connecting is Key to Communicate your Dream, so Get Over Yourself!

Communication is key in any situation.  If you are a poor communicator then you will not be able to get your point across or tell people what you want.  Lack of communication is major reason for frustration in our world.  If you have trouble communicating you just need to say, “get over yourself” and learn the fine art of communication. 

Even more you need to learn how to connect.  We are always communicating.  Our body gestures, language, and tone communicate something.  It may not be what we want but we are communicating.  Connecting is an entirely different thing.  Especially when it comes to communicating a vision or a dream.

If it is our dream or vision we usually don’t have that much trouble communicating it.  That is because it is in our hearts; it is something that we can become emotional about.  If we know the art of communication we can connect with emotion and it makes it much easier for others to become involved in our dream because it is something we connect with in our souls. 

However, when it comes to connecting with someone else’s dream or vision, it becomes more difficult.  We have no emotional connection to it.  I remember when I worked in corporate America I was subject to the quarterly updates.  Most of the time they were nothing but a bunch of numbers.  They were results from the last quarter’s results and projections for the next quarter.  There was no dream of vision that god people fired up because the people giving the updates were only employees and not emotionally attached to the vision of the owner.

If you want to connect with someone else’s vision you have to allow that vision to get in your heart and become emotionally attached to it.  I think this is one of the downfalls of the American corporation.  The leaders of the corporation didn’t convey the vision for the company with enough emotion to get the employees involved.  If it is your job to convey the dreams and visions of another you need to get over yourself and become emotionally attached to that dream or you will never adequately convey that dream to get others involved in it.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself! Complacency is the Killer or Success, so Get Over Yourself!

Complacency, it seems like the whole world suffers from it in some form or another.  We are complacent about our success.  We all want to be successful but we get into a comfort zone and just become totally complacent about our lives, careers, and success.  I’m here to tell you that you need to get over yourself and become a success.  Everyone can do it; we just need to start doing it.

For many years America was the global leader in manufacturing and jobs.  We had an easy life.  I know when I got out of high school jobs were easy to find and most of them were high paying.  That is no longer the case.  Statistics are staggering.  Nearly 80% of all college graduates will move back in with their parents after they graduate because they can’t find a job that will pay the bills.  This is the sad reality of the end of the Industrial Age and American dominance.

When World War II ended we were the only industrialized nation that was not destroyed.  We had factories already built to make the instruments of war like planes and bombs.  All we had to do was retool them and we could make other products.  Countries in Europe and Japan were not so fortunate; their infrastructure was destroyed.  It had to be rebuilt from the ground up.

This took time, so Americans enjoyed unprecedented wealth for about five decades until things began to change.  The factories were rebuilt in other countries, globalization started, and the Internet became a reality.  America no longer enjoys the dominance we once had.   But that doesn’t mean we still can’t compete.  Things have changed and we need to change with them.

However, we are falling behind because we have become complacent.  Instead of changing ourselves we are complaining that our government does not provide for us.  We need to just say, “get over yourself” and seize the new opportunities that are before us.  There are many, even more than we had during the boom years after WWII, but we just prefer to stay complacent and stay in the same rut.  If you suffer from complacency you need to say get over yourself, get the training that you need to succeed, and go for it.     

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself! People Don’t Care that Much about You so Get Over Yourself!

How many times do you feel that the world is watching every one of you screw-ups and mistakes?  Because I was abused as a child I used to believe that everyone saw every one of my mistakes.  I have had to realize that I need to say to myself “get over yourself” because not everyone is watching or cares about my mistakes.

I am an avid member of Toastmasters.  I love to give speeches and be involved with the club.  Yesterday I was giving a speech and I didn’t check the PowerPoint presentation before I started my speech.  Half way through the speech the whole system started to mess up.  I had to wing it.  It’s a good thing that I had the speech memorized or I would have really messed up.  The PowerPoint finally started working like it was supposed to but I felt like I really messed up. 

Every Toastmasters Club meeting is a contest.  We have a contest for best speaker.  I won the contest.  Even though I felt like I really screwed it up, but I guess my fellow club members didn’t feel the same way about my speech.  I just needed to say “get over yourself.”  People don’t see things the way you do.  They really don’t see all of your screw-ups.  No one is perfect so get over yourself.

Do you every feel like that?  Do you feel like you live in a fishbowl with everyone watching for every mistake that you make.  That is probably caused because you were abused as a child.  My dad used to watch my every move when I was around him.  Every time I did something that he didn’t like he was on my case about it.  It could be the smallest thing or nothing at all.  Perhaps he was just in a bad mood that day and he wanted to take it out on me.  I grew up thinking that everyone was watching my every move and they saw every mistake I made.  I spent years trying to get over myself.  I did well for myself, but I was never the person the God wanted me to be.

If you were abused like I was and you feel the same way, then get over yourself because people aren’t watching your every move or caring much about the mistake you make unless it’s a big one that really hurts someone.  Those small little things that you think you screw up no one cares about.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself! Whatever is Happening to You is Your Responsibility, so Get Over Yourself!

Responsibility, so many of us want to blame someone else for our problems.  Someone irritates us, we blame them.  We fall off our diet, we blame others or we don’t have time.  We aren’t progressing in our goals, we blame circumstances or the weather, or whatever.  The kids won’t do what we want them to do, we blame society or our kids for what is happening.  We have distractions keeping us from doing our prospecting calls, we blame others.  If this is happening to you, you need to get over yourself because you have responsibility in every circumstance in your life.  

We all have bad things that happen to us.  It is just a part of life.  No one can stop it.  There are bad people in society that will take advantage of you, steal from you, and rip you off in a heartbeat if you let them.  The idea is not to let those people into your life.  Sometimes we can’t help it.  They will come in like of wolf in sheep’s clothing and steal from us or hurt us in some way.  However, even if they do bad things to us it is how we react that matters.  If we become bitter and allow that hurt to continue then we allow them to win.  We no longer have control.  We have given to the person that hurt us and they just won the game.

However, you can control the way you react to every situation.  You need to get over yourself and take responsibility for your reaction.  Hit the responsibility button whenever you feel yourself complaining about your circumstances or blaming others for what is happening to you.  Others my very well be to blame but you need to get over yourself and catch yourself and how you react to your situation.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself! I Need Extra Income but I Don’t Want to Change, So Get Over Yourself!

The statistics are staggering.  There are so many people who can’t find decent jobs today.  Among college students that graduate every year a whopping 40% of them can’t find jobs and have to move back home after college.  I don’t know the statistics but most of them probably have large student loans of $50,000 to $100,000 to pay off.  This debt will follow them for the rest of their lives.  It is not forgivable.  What are we doing to our young people?

The same is happening to the Baby Boomers. Baby boomers control nearly 80% of the economy because there are such a large number of them.  Since 2011 it is estimated that 10,000 Boomers a year will turn 65.  This number will continue until the year 2030.  That’s a lot of people reaching retirement age.  It is estimated the over 40% of them will never retire.  They will work until the day they die. 

The high paying corporate jobs are just not available like they were in times past.  We have entered a new era.  It is called the Information Age.  Since the advent of the Internet we have changed from the Industrial Age to the Information Age.  Things are changing rapidly but many Americans aren’t changing with it.

We have Industrial Age thinking in an Information Age world.  What can we do about it?  We have to change the way we think.  There is opportunity in the marketplace like never before but we aren’t taking advantage of it because we just don’t want to change. 

We many not change until we are forced to make it happen.  Change can be scary but when we are forced into it we will do it.  I read an analogy the other day about doing scary things.  What if you were on top of a 30-story building and there was another building the same height about 15 feet away?  Someone put a plank from one building to another and ask you to walk across it.  You naturally would refuse.  It’s too high.  You couldn’t get over yourself because it wasn’t necessary.

Now let’s change the scenario a bit.  What if the other building was on fire and your child was on the roof of the building.  The only way you could save your child was to go across the blank to get him or her.  Now you could get over yourself and your fear without a problem to save your child. 

We are at a financial crossroads in this nation.  We need to change but many of us aren’t desperate enough to change yet.  You need to get over yourself and realize the only way to financial freedom is to change and take the scary plunge that you dread so much.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

Get Over Yourself! You are Enough so Get Over Yourself?

I was lying in bed last night.  When I am in bed in the middle of the night and I wake up I either have my greatest moments of inspiration or my greatest moments of self-doubt.  Last night I had one of my greatest moments of self-doubt.  I think that I’m not good enough.  Then my thoughts came to me that said “Get over yourself, you are good enough.”  I’m enough. I’m enough, I kept repeating over and over in my head.  I should think I am more than enough because I have to Lord on my side also.

I believe this is the main reason that most people don’t have success in business and in their lives.  They believe that they aren’t enough. They have limiting thoughts and beliefs floating around that stay with them throughout their whole lives.  They make it through life but not well.  They settle for less than their best because of some childhood trauma, someone telling them they aren’t good enough over and over again, or some disappointment that keeps them from doing the one thing that they were put on this earth to do.

I believe that not many people ever accomplish what they were put one Earth to do.  That’s because they refuse to just say “get over yourself” and do it.  The only thing stopping them is what is in their head.  Is that your problem?  I know it was mine.  I just refused to get over myself long enough to do what God wants me to do.  I get inside my head and refuse to see outside myself.  I think that I am not confident.  Most people see me as confident and powerful.  I hear that from people all the time but I refuse to believe it. 

Why I can’t believe that I am nothing more that an abused little girl that was raised as an only child in the middle of nowhere, I don’t know.  I am not a little girl anymore and I don’t live in the middle of nowhere anymore.  The one who told me I was nothing, my dad, has been dead for over 10 years now.  I need to keep saying to myself, “get over yourself, I’m enough, I’m enough, I’m enough.” 

Is that what you deal with?  Do you deal with limiting beliefs that keep you from doing the thing that you know you were put on the planet to do?  If so you need to change your thinking.  You need to think outside yourself and get over yourself.  You are enough and you can do it.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go  HERE sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.

           

Goal Setting Theory - The Reality of Goal Setting Theory

The idea of setting a goal is most common to anyone who wants to achieve. The goal must be clear, concise, and congruent with the desired result. Without a goal people are left wondering about aimlessly being busy but not attaining anything significant. In sports the basketball goal is round and easily seen. In football the goal line is set and marked so that the players know what direction to move. The reason many entrepreneurs struggle is because they don’t understand the goal setting theory.


The reason so many people love sporting events is because they like to watch the theory become reality. Every team involved in a game plans on achieving the goal more often than the competition but the reality only comes as the final buzzer sounds or the play clock reaches its end.


The same holds true in business or personal life… goal setting theory only becomes reality when a limit is set. That limit might be time, as it is in sports, or it might be numeric as it is in finance. The goal keeps the players focused and motivated toward an end. Goal setting theory is necessary to make achievement a reality. Otherwise, life is an endless activity of effort for no reason.


To make the goal setting theory a reality three key components must be present. The goal must be attainable, measurable, and trackable. If the goal is not attainable it will frustrate all effort to reach it. An example is setting a goal to lose fifty pounds in six weeks. That works out to a little over eight pounds a week. Broken down further that’s over a pound a day. To be attainable a lot of exercise and a strict diet is necessary.


For someone who is highly motivated, understands nutrition, and completely committed that goal might be attainable but for most people it is out of reach. That is why many start strong but give up half way toward that goal.


Professional sport teams want winning seasons because it generates a huge profit. They have recognized the need for the talent (the players) to have outside help (coaches). Profitable businesses hire outside help to evaluate the market, their competition, and economic climate. Consultants specializing in these areas are highly sought after and paid well.


When it comes to our personal lives most people resist the idea of a life coach or someone outside themselves to help achieve goals. If the goal setting theory works for professionals it follows that it works for individuals. Visit my website, www.incredibletransformation.com, and complete the contact form so that I can discuss with you more about the goal setting theory.

Short Term Goals - Cottage Cheese and Short Term Goals

That is the most ridiculous title EVER! What does cottage cheese have to with short term goals? It’s so outrageous and insulting that reading any further may be hazardous to your mental health. OR you just might discover something amazing that will impact your life in a most positive way.

First, I’ll start with cottage cheese. Have you ever wondered where it comes from? How is it produced and where did the name originate? Simple questions but without looking on the internet can you answer them?


I have enjoyed cottage cheese many times but I couldn’t answer these questions without some research (the word we used before there was google or wikipedia). The first known use of the term "cottage cheese" dates back to 1831 and is believed to have originated because the simple cheese was usually made in cottages from any milk left over after making butter.

So, what is the link between cottage cheese and short term goals? It is the fact that often both tend to be taken for granted. Seldom do people think about cottage cheese when it is included in a meal. Likewise, short term goals are overlooked when planning a strategy to achieve an end. This is true especially in visualization techniques.


Yeah, you know what I’m referring to. You want an expensive new car so you find a picture of the exact model with all the features and you post it on the dream wall. Everyday you look at that picture of the goal you want to obtain. It is the end result of your desire but what’s forgotten is the short term goals that lead up to the final purchase.


Like the little curds of cottage cheese these small steps toward the big reward are more attainable. They happen more often giving you the confidence that the ultimate goal can be reached. Nothing succeeds like success but unfortunately the exhilaration of succeeding only lasts a short time. If you have one huge goal then the satisfaction of reaching it last the same amount of time.


To help understand this concept imagine your a realtor. It takes approximately 30 days to finalize a home purchase for your client. The thrill of achieving that goal happens just once during the month. Now if you set a goal of showing two homes each day and accomplish that short term goal then you experience success more often in the month. The reality is that it takes showing that many homes each month to close on one sale.


You might not see how cottage cheese and short term goals have anything in common but you now know a little more about both of them. I have more ideas of helping you reach your full potential. Visit my website at www.incredibletransformation.com and complete the contact information form. My goal is to help you reach yours and connecting with you is one of my short term goals.

Get Over Yourself, Marketing isn’t all About You so Get Over Yourself!

My husband and I are reading John Maxwell’s book, “Everyone Communicates, Few Connect.”  In this book he talks about how we connect with other people.  The truth is that not many of us actually connect with others when we talk with them.  Most of us communicate, but not many actually connect.  How do you get over yourself and actually connect with other people? 

People today are busy and bombarded in all directions.  They will only listen to you if you can show that there is something in it for them.  You have to make a real connection to show them you care. According to Mr. Maxwell there are three questions that everyone asks when connecting with others.

1.     Do you care for me?  Think about the best experiences you have had with others.  If you can recall those moments they were probably when you thought someone really cared about you.  Business people can make others feel important.  In politics you can win someone to your cause if you first convince them that you are a real friend.  In entertainment you can get them to love you by loving them first.  In ministry you have to convince your audience that you love them to show them you care.

2.     Can you help me?  There is an old sales saying:  nobody wants to be sold, but everyone wants to be helped.  Successful people who connect with people always keep in mind that the other person wants to know how you can help them.  Get over yourself it isn’t about your product or feature and how great it is, it’s about how you can help the other person.  It is how you can be their trusted friend.

3.     Can I Trust You?  This is probably the most important one.  I know in every situation I want to be told the truth.  I don’t like the old “used car salesman” line.  We get bombarded with that everyday.  There is always someone who can give us everything we need, for very little money, and they will do it all for you.  Trust me, that’s a line of sh--.  It doesn’t work that way.  If anyone tries to tell you that you can have a home based business with very little money, no work and no training, they are lying and not to be trusted.

In sales and marketing you have to remember to get over yourself, add value to the lives of others, and be a person that they can trust.  Help others, be trustworthy and you will find it much easier to make that sale, helping you and your customer.

We are here to help you become the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.  Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to help you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go HERE and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.