Get Over Yourself, Be Not Do, and Get Over Yourself

If you are doing something new we can be very scared because we don’t know what to do.  We need to just say “get over yourself” and start being and not doing.  It’s because we are afraid that we aren’t doing the right thing.  We do one thing and then we do another thing, and another and we just don’t seem to figure it out.  We try one thing after another and then we just don’t seem to be able to figure out how to be the best at what we are trying.

Have you ever heard the saying that we need to be and not do.  We are in fact, human beings, not humans doing.  If you want to be the best salesman in your company you need to stop watching what he or she does and then start acting like them.  If you want to be the best husband or wife in the world you need to find the person that you think is the best husband or wife and then start acting like them.

If you are in interested in becoming the top sales person in your organization it is very important to have someone to emulate.  They say you become the five people you hang out with.  Now days with the advent of the Internet the people you hang with do not have to be close friends, they can be people on the Internet.  Some of my favorites are Darren Hardy, John Maxwell, and Ray Higdon.

Darren Hardy just stepped down as the publisher of Success Magazine to go on to bigger and better things but I learned so much from him about attitude.  It’s all about your attitude.  You win more with the right attitude than you do with all the latest and greatest new things that every guru comes out with to build an Internet empire. 

I am in a direct sales company.  I believe that the people who are mega successful in these companies are there for two reasons.  Number one, they already had a large base of influence before they joined the company.  Or number two; they developed the right attitude while in the company.  You need to have an attitude of confidence, and nearly arrogance to succeed.  I’m not talking about the arrogance makes you think your all that.  I’m talking about the air of confidence that tells you that you can lead people and influence them.  So if you want to make it big, get over yourself and improve your attitude. 

Get over yourself and retrain your brain.  Get over all the junk that was put in your brain by your parents, peers, and the world.  You get over it by reading, listening, and meditating on positive uplifting things that help you retrain your brain.  That’s one way you get over yourself to become the person you were supposed to be.

Do you have something nagging at you telling you that you are NOT fulfilling the purpose you we put on Earth? I want to talk with you.  I want to help 10 people fulfill their purpose in 2016.  You must go through a qualification process. If you want to see if you qualify go to www.incredibletransformation.com and sign up.  I want to connect with you about your dreams and see if you are one of those who I will work with to take your life to its purpose.