Helplessness and Fear, How Helplessness and Fear Keep us from our Victory

Helplessness and fear are two things that keep us in a cycle of failure and defeat.  We all have fears that keep us from achieving the success that we were born to achieve.  Most of our fears lead to helplessness that we think we can’t overcome.  It’s a cycle called the FHF cycle and here is how it works.

Have you ever told yourself that you don’t have the ability, you’re not smart enough, talented enough, don’t know enough people, or don’t know the right people.  All of these limiting beliefs lead to failure when it comes to an opportunity to be successful.

You join an opportunity and once you run into an obstacle you quit because you allow your self-doubts and fears to overcome you.  Then you use the same old excuses that everyone else uses.  I can’t do this because my friend tried that and failed.  I can’t because it’s a scam or I can’t because I haven’t got the skill and no one showed me the skill.  All excuses.

So how do you overcome these excuses?  You have to draw a line in the sand and just start doing the thing that you are afraid of.  I was terrified of cold calling for many years.  I would not pick up the phone, but now I do it all the time.  I still have fear but I have learned how to lean into the fear and take it on head on.  The first four or five people that I call I might mess up because I am afraid but after that I become confident and then I get over the fear as I call more and more people.

You have to take action steps if you are afraid of talking to new people.  Write out the action daily. 

·      ACTION:  I will call 100 people today

·      ACTION:  I will write on article a day for the next five days.

·      ACTION:  I will connect with people at the party when I used to shrink back.

After you have the action then you need to set another goal so you don’t procrastinate.  What is your goal for calling 100 people every day.  Is it to get 20 people into your business?  What is it?  Stop putting it off, become focused and start doing it. 

How many hours a day will you spend on building your business?  That is what gets you totally focused.  You need to set hours in you home based business.  Make it like a job.  So many people say, make it like a business, but you need to make it like a job and have office hours.

You need to lean into the fear.  If you fear doing something like cold calling, contacting people, or talking with them, you need to just do it.  Draw a line in the sand and just do it.  This will get you over the feelings of fear and hopelessness that you may have. 

In order to become a success we need to get over fear and helplessness we tell ourselves on a daily basis. I am taking 10 people on the journey of a lifetime into world of residual income.  If you want to see if you qualify for this journey go to www.incredibletransformation.com, give us your information so we can see if you qualify.